The topics say that men always have more desire to have sex than women. The truth is that it is not very clear that it is so Y it seems that everything responds to the environment, education and the inputs that boys and girls receive since they are young, in which boys have a more uninhibited role with sex and girls a little more intimate, as if they should hide what they think and feel in reference to sex .
The fact is that men assume that when the couple is already consolidated and responsibilities and routines increase, sexual relations decrease. And I don't tell you anything if she is pregnant: we have always been told that when she is pregnant she will not want to have sex.
However, there are times when the opposite happens: when you are pregnant and have more desire to have sex than you.
With all the symptoms of pregnancy you will not be approached
Nausea, vomiting, tiredness, everything smells bad, everything tastes bad ... with all the symptoms of pregnancy you think you're going to have a few months without sex and that good, maybe one day you feel like it a bit. But then you start to think that let's see if that is going to be negative for the baby, or do you realize that the day they explained the reproduction you did not go to class or you dedicated yourself to saying nonsense and laughing, and you think you could harm the baby with your penis.
But no. Nature is wise enough to predict that the woman could have sex even pregnant and protects the baby perfectly. You can have relationships if you both want. It is not dangerous for the baby.
And there are couples who barely have them because the sexual desire has diminished a lot, and there are some that do not stop, because the opposite happens.
"Honey, is that you?"
That you enter through the door and he is already looking for you ... that "wait a moment, I leave the keys here; wait, the cell phone is going to fall. But, if I haven't even showered, ohhhh".
And so for the day, and then for the night, and "expect me to get on this other side", "and we're going to try this other position", and "no, so I don't weigh my belly anymore and I can't breathe "," he hopes that I put myself underneath "," he hopes that I put myself above "," I better put myself aside ".
And when you have been sleeping for a couple of hours, that you are exhausted and have it redder than a pepper, you notice a hand that caresses you and you see yourself saying something that you would never believe you would say: "Again? Honey, no. I can't anymore ...".
And so one day, and another, and another, and the next not because "tomorrow I have an ultrasound and I don't know if I'm going to get the vaginal ultrasound that ... imagine that he does it to me like that and says he doesn't see anything because there is semen, or I know ... It gives me something. " Although at 30 seconds he tells you "Hey, didn't we have some condoms in the drawer?".
And come, for that, to enjoy; Tomorrow you get to work dust but with a smile from ear to ear. That you think this must be some kind of adaptation of nature that makes the woman want to join the man much more so that when the baby is born, you are both as a couple better than ever, more united than ever, and so you can take care of the baby together in the best possible way.
But ... well, it's hormonal, and sometimes the opposite happens
The fact is that then you discover that it does not seem like an adaptation of those, because you talk to a co-worker, those with whom you have confidence, who tell you "I see you thinner, but happier", and you say that "is that we don't stop ... all day, give it to you."
And he is surprised and asks: "But I wasn't pregnant?" And you who say yes, that "well of course", which is since then that is so.
And then he confesses to you that he spent nine months almost two candles, that he could count on the fingers of one hand the times they had relations, and that with that same hand he had to go pulling ... "and some cold shower, do not believe ".
Y so normal is one thing like the other: in pregnancy the hormonal changes are huge and cause symptoms of all kinds. There are women to whom those changes It makes them lessen the desire to make love and there are others to whom the sexual appetite is put in the clouds.
If you are one of those who have a woman of the second, at home, of which we are talking today, calm down: let yourself go, enjoy, take advantage to bond more as a couple. This will make you happier and she will be too, and that your relationship is probably better than ever.
In addition, sex is very beneficial in pregnancy because it prepares the muscles of the vagina for childbirth, because semen helps soften the cervix to make dilation more effective and because it makes recovery after childbirth better, among other things.
If you are one of those who has a second wife, talk to her. Talk about it and look for ways to continue cultivating your relationship and your love. Even look for ways to have relationships that are satisfactory for both of you without forcing it. Sometimes the blockage happens because of fears, insecurities or myths (like the one we have said that the baby can be harmed), and speaking it can make you find a way to be together enjoying it. Did you know that in pregnancy women's orgasm is more intense?
